Breakup Angels April & May Newsletter

What if you could..?

..Find out why there isn't sex in your marriage anymore

..See breaking up as positive, even as a single parent

..Let off steam with MoanAboutMen.. and solve issues

..Learn to understand money (perhaps for the first time?)

.. Relax..with a purpose in Greece on a solo Serenity Break

..Speak to an expert NOW for 1-1 help

What if you could..? Find out why there's no sex in your marriage anymore 

Is this you? You’re not as young as you were with the kids reminding you that carefree days of little responsibility are behind you. But you’re halfway attractive, look after yourself and expect intimacy and love. You may even be happy in your marriage, except for one thing - your sex life is non- existent.

Sexual rejection isn’t something people want to talk about. If you’re female you may be lucky enough to be able to discuss it with friends and family but for most people embarrassment or shame get in the way. If you’re male I bet you don’t raise the subject unless it’s in that half jokey way that men do or as a dig at 'the wife'.

Most of us want a relationship that's close and loving and fulfilling at all levels, including sexually. To some people this may just be a romantic dream unless they work out exactly what this means and how to find it. But if you have experienced love and great sex with your partner then it can be baffling when the sexual desire wanes and dies.

People do live in sexless marriages very successfully, but only if their prime needs are being met. If you have a prime need to be sexually fulfilled - and this is a basic human need - then the chances are that sooner or later this need will have to be met - perhaps outside the marriage.

Read more here in our article 'Why Don't We Make Love Anymore?'

What if you could..? See breaking up can be positive, even if you will be a single mum or dad 

Are you a single parent (or facing that prospect) and wondering how you cope post divorce over the holidays? Then click through here to the Wikizine Parents in Dialogue article called Taking a 'Holiday'! for what it might mean over the hols and how 3 single parents (yep, including yours truly) not only cope, but have fun too.

"The struggles facing single mothers are well documented" writes Jenny Tucker in the Sunday Telegraph, "but what of men left to raise families alone?"  Jenny talks to four single fathers including the truly inspirational Bob Grieg founder of OnlyDads and Billy McGranaghan founder of DadsHouse. Click here to read the article on-line.   

What if you could..? Let off steam ladies with MoanAboutMen.. (men, the low down on why you make us laugh and groan)

Moanaboutmen.com originally started as a bit of fun and has become very popular with women all over the world with its lively forum and community site since its launch in 2007.

Relaunched recently, it's currently beta testing and fast becoming an exciting and innovative social networking site for women of all ages. Make friends, find help, read articles, join discussions, let off steam, offer opinions, get ideas, solve issues or simply browse the community and take it all in.

And there's also the Moan About Men Agony Aunt channel (courtesy of your author) and Mikie Lawson's camp and quirky view of the world. Ask what you want - no holds barred - and marvel at the wisdom we return. This week it's the dilemma of the woman who's 'happily' living with her partner with no sex (it seems to be a theme - see above :) ) Then along comes a male friend offering .. lust. Now who is this not a problem for? Read more here.

Moan About Men offers you online forums, interest groups, magazine articles on topics as wide as love, lifestyle, chick lit, chick flicks, health, beauty, fashion and style. There are shopping ideas, games, videos and photos. Best of all, you can express and share your opinion on everything.

What if you could..? Learn to understand money (perhaps for the first time?) 

It’s often only when the rug's pulled out from under our feet that we realise how vulnerable we've left ourselves - never more so than when it comes to finances - and especially if we're the home maker and with little financial know-how. It was a pleasure then to meet with Mary Waring who is determined to help debunk some of the mystery surrounding finances through her FREE financial teleseminars.   

Mary is a chartered accountant, an independent mortgage adviser and Independent Financial Adviser (IFA). She is holding a FREE Teleseminar on 'MONEY TIPS' on 20th May to help listeners manage their finances, reduce debts and increase savings.

The teleseminar is designed to help listeners learn how to:

• be   financially savvy and improve financial worth; 
• pay off credit card debt 7 times faster; 
• increase disposable income; 
• save for children so they'll be a multi-millionaire  when they retire. 

Mary says: "Many people shy away from doing anything about their financial position because they think it's too complicated." She will give some down-to-earth advice and debunk some of the mystery in her tele-seminars.

To register for the Teleseminar or to receive the recording click here.

For those readers who are going through breakup and finding it hard to deal with the financial implications whilst the emotional side weighs so heavily, there are two top resources I recommend:

• Sarah Pennell's book 'Divorce: How to Help Yourself and Your Finances (Financial Intelligence)'. Read more here  and order on-line  £6.97. 

• Our very own Breakup Angels experts download (16 page transcript and 60 minute MP3 audio file £16.97) with IFA and collaborative law financial consultant Bill Smith called 'Can you afford to divorce? Learn how to start to calculate the net 'family pot' and how on earth you can begin to divide it up. 

What if you could..? Relax..with a purpose in Greece on a solo Serenity Break 

For those on a spiritual, self-development or 12 step journey who are holidaying alone, then check out Serenity Retreat. All rooms are for sole occupancy with no surcharge, in Lefkada, Greece.

STOP PRESS: The Dress With Style and Confidence and Discover the New You optional workshop is particularly suited to those who are getting over a split, or whose children have left home or just want to put themselves first a bit more. Read more here.

What if you could..? ..Speak to an expert NOW for 1-1 help.

It's all very well accessing reams of information on-line, but there comes a point when free generic information adds little value and unless pay for 1-1 help targeted at your own unique circumstances, you will continue to be confused and lose direction.

To enable my clinets to access this crucial help NOW, I offer individual breakup advice via an advice line. The advice line number is 0906 400 6215 (calls cost £1.50/min from a BT landline; calls from mobiles and other networks may vary.)

We can speak for as little or as long as you like and in that time, we can explore exactly what you need to do right NOW. If I'm not available, I will ring you straight back.

Alternatively, book a Refocus Right Now personal support call which costs £67/ hour. Click here to learn more.

"I'm so glad I found your site and finally decided to take the plunge and contact you. I already know it's been well worth the time and money”  - Catherine, deciding whether to stay or go.

I look forward to helping you reduce your pain and find solutions.

Warmest wishes

Kirsten

Kirsten Gronning

Managing Director: Breakup Angels Ltd

www.breakupangels.com

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